Pretty sure we’ve all been there. You’re all excited about someone new, you can’t wait to get naked with them, and then… oh. Or you’ve really liked someone for ages, you FINALLY start hooking up with them….and then you lay there staring at the ceiling. There are a few reasons for this, and – breathe! […]
Asking for what you want in bed – as with life – is crucial. We know that, we agree with it, we shout it from the proverbial rooftops (especially, it seems, on Instagram – gotta love an affirming meme). But what about that moment when it’s just you and your partner/s and you’re all ready […]
If you’re finding it hard to talk to your partner/s about what you like in bed, don’t worry, you’re not alone. We all know how important it is, but that doesn’t make it easy. You might be worried about hurting their feelings or them thinking you’re weird. It can feel very vulnerable and VERY awkward, […]
If I asked you off of the top of your head to list as many ways as you could think of to say ‘male masturbation,’ how many do you think you could come up with? 5? 10? 20? How about ‘female masturbation’? I can only think of one: ‘flicking the bean’ (if you know more, […]
I want to do something about the massive problem I see all around me: stigma about women’s sexuality and, as a consequence, women disconnected from their own desires and lacking confidence to voice them. Women too often come second both literally and figuratively, in the bedroom and in too many other areas of life. I […]